Consensual blackmail

You often ask about blackmail and there is already a post about it in the Spanish blog (29 October 2012). That is condensed into a few paragraphs and yes, it is one of the practices that I enjoy, in fact, I have a puppy in those terms from a few months ago. But for me the blackmail is not just a game, I take it very seriously .. I demand contract with clear terms both as to its duration (previously agreed) and the limits to which both we will stick. There are several types of contracts, the most widespread and comprehensive, where the slave becomes controlled and monitored, even at a distance, through various devices and techniques and programs that I can get into his PC to block, change and want to know what he does and where exactly is my toy. The micromanagement is total control over the dog, takes a lot of effort on my part to make sure that the information I’m getting is true, control every moment of the day and become present in his life so he can not take a step without feeling my presence. As a result, potential surprises and unexpected demands contribute to the slave will become aware of who should be no escape. Not everyone is ready for such involvement, not everyone understands the magnitude of this practice. The secret of winning a case in order to get in the right hands, learn to obey to avoid undesirable risks and enjoy all that adrenaline with the Mistress play whenever she feel...

Blackmail consensuado

Me preguntáis a menudo sobre blackmail y ya hay un post de ello en el blog (29 de octubre de 2012). Ahí está condensado en pocos párrafos y sí, es una de las prácticas que disfruto; de hecho, tengo algún perrillo en esos términos desde hace unos meses. Pero para mi el blackmail no es un simple juego, me lo tomo muy en serio.. Exijo contrato con términos muy claros tanto en cuanto a la duración del mismo (previamente consensuada) como los límites a los que ambos nos atendremos. Hay varios tipos de contrato, los más generalizados y los exhaustivos, donde el esclavo pasa a estar controlado y monitorizado, aún a distancia, mediante diversos dispositivos y técnicas, así como programas con los que puedo entrar en su PC para bloquear, cambiar lo que desee y saber qué es lo que hace y dónde está exactamente mi juguete. El micromanagement es un control total sobre el perro, requiere muchísimo esfuerzo por mi parte para cerciorarme de que la información que voy obteniendo es veraz, controlar cada momento del día y hacerme presente en su vida de tal forma que no pueda dar un paso sin sentir mi presencia. Como consecuencia, las posibles sorpresas y exigencias inesperadas contribuyen a que el esclavo vaya tomando conciencia de a quién se debe sin escapatoria posible. Ni todo el mundo está preparado para tal implicación, ni todos comprenden la magnitud de esta práctica. El secreto de llevarla a buen fin está en ponerse en las manos adecuadas, aprender a obedecer para evitar riesgos indeseables y disfrutar de toda esa adrenalina con la que el...

Cruel controversy

Years before this blog existed, I characterized by my views and defend my convictions. Time has passed but not only have I didn’t changed my mind but, on the contrary, my way of being and thinking is more marked. I grew up with personal experiences, good and bad, I have learned many things and I have enjoyed every step of the way. And, although I have many things to live for some time I decided to be clear, direct and sincere both with myself and with others. My honesty has always been frowned upon in certain circles (Financial Mistress declared without subterfuge appears to be an unforgivable crime). Sure they may not bother to find out what that means and I will not explain who judge me without knowing me. And, I must say, not only judge me, envy me too 🙂 What I have with mine is my sole responsibility and wish to remain so. Nor me lose sleep accept me or not, I do not need to belong to any cliques in which as one member turns around they put green among others. And I know that my words will continue to create controversy, but not force anyone to read me or hear me. Carpe diem, Ladies and gentlemen, I do dare to say what I think, to be what I am now come...

Polémica Cruel

Años antes de que este blog existiera, ya me caracterizaba por exponer mis opiniones y defender mis convicciones. El tiempo ha pasado pero no sólo no he cambiado de parecer sino que, muy al contrario, mi forma de ser y pensar es más marcada. He crecido con las experiencias personales, buenas y malas, he aprendido muchas cosas y he disfrutado de cada paso del trayecto. Y, aunque me quedan muchas cosas por vivir, hace ya tiempo que decidí ser clara, directa y sincera tanto conmigo misma como con los demás. Mi sinceridad siempre ha estado muy mal vista en determinados círculos (declararse Ama Financiera sin subterfugios parece ser un crimen imperdonable). Claro que quizás no se toman la molestia de saber qué significa eso y no voy a dar explicaciones a quienes me juzgan sin conocerme. Y, todo sea dicho, no sólo me juzgan, también me envidian 🙂 Lo que yo tenga con los míos es de mi única y exclusiva incumbencia y así deseo que siga siendo. Tampoco me quita el sueño que me acepten o no, no necesito pertenecer a ningún tipo de camarillas en las que en cuanto uno de sus miembros se da media vuelta lo ponen verde entre los demás. Y sé que mis palabras continuarán creando polémica, pero tampoco obligo a nadie a leerme o escucharme. Carpe diem, Señoras, señores, yo sí me atrevo a decir lo que pienso, a ser lo que soy y a dar la...

Leisure

Been years since I went to the theater, but lately I’ve become a fan again. I went with magic to see Aphrodisiac in a coffee-theater and was very funny (both the work and my putting romps with my pet in distress). On Saturday I went to see TOC TOC with clown, a wonderful adaptation of the French play outstandingly performed and where I could not stop laughing at the two-hour function. Caveman is the next and will fall this week, I’m excited to see it. Madrid offers a wide range of shows and I encourage you to enjoy, there are great people working throughout the city. As the super sweet Dolly, a drag on the scene that takes years active in the Gula Gula and El diván de Dolly. (I remember Dolly with special affection on his show because I met someone special that now belongs to me). No, I do not get commission for this advertising haha, but since you ask me stuff about me, here I leave this data. Surprise your Ladies with a trip to the theater or a restaurant with show: a fun feature, a pinch of curiosity … and the chances of...