Musing

I don’t like making decisions “in hot” because I have a lot of character and I know I can do some damage if I’m angry. Also, if I make a decision no turning back, take it to the end. Similarly, I have enough sense to refuse to have a session if something upsets me. A session is a very serious thing to not have full control of the situation. And I include alcohol intake, thing I can do without and I’m not a habitual drinker, no drugs, of which I waive absolutely always. If something bothers me round I prefer to let it cool down and meditate before doing things hastily. I do not speak the dinner menu, of course, but things that can mean significant and radical changes. Of course, if once weighed and pondered the subject matter came to the conclusion that I have to cut to the chase, or when I’ll unblinking implement that decision and assume until the end. Am I tough? Maybe, but sure of what I want...

Meditando

No me gusta tomar decisiones “en caliente” porque tengo mucho carácter y sé que puedo hacer mucho daño si estoy enfadada. Además, si tomo una decisión no hay vuelta de hoja, la llevaré hasta el final. Del mismo modo, tengo la suficiente sensatez como para negarme a tener una sesión si hay algo que me altera. Una sesión es algo muy serio como para no tener el control total de la situación. Y aquí incluyo la ingesta de alcohol, cosa de la que puedo prescindir ya que no soy una bebedora habitual, ni drogas, de las que prescindo absolutamente siempre. Si hay algo que me ronda y me molesta, prefiero dejar que se enfríe y meditarlo antes de hacer las cosas precipitadamente. No hablo del menú para cenar, por supuesto, sino de cosas que pueden significar cambios importantes y radicales. Eso sí, si una vez sopesado y meditado el tema en cuestión llego a la conclusión de que he de cortar por lo sano, ni pestañearé a la hora de aplicar dicha decisión y asumiré hasta las últimas consecuencias. ¿Dura? Tal vez, pero también segura de lo que...

Routines

My little vacation is finished and it is time to start thinking about back home. I had a very good time, has been time to laze, to subdue my slave, to laugh, to serious talks and even to make some fun pictures, but I advance that most are too personal and I am not going to publish them. When I get home I will return the Humiliation Contest, to see what’s new in my email, and I reinstall it in my daily routine. The word “routine” often has negative connotations, being associated with boredom and repetition, but my routine has nothing to do with it. I live the life I’ve chosen and there is not much time for boredom, as there are always new things to do. FemDom routines are necessary to teach the submissive how to behave, to he learns how I like to be entertained, for his surrender is increasing gradually, so he know what his obligations and do not forget what is his site and who belongs. There are different ways of coping with life and its routines and mine are not at all...

Rutinas

Mis pequeñas vacaciones se acaban y va siendo hora de ir pensando en la vuelta a casa. Me lo he pasado muy bien, ha habido tiempo para holgazanear, para someter, para reír, para conversaciones serias y hasta para hacer alguna que otra foto divertida, aunque os adelanto que la mayoría son demasiado personales y no las voy a publicar. Cuando llegue a casa retomaré el Concurso de humillación, a ver qué novedades hay en mi correo, y me reinstalaré en mi rutina cotidiana. La palabra “rutina” suele tener connotaciones negativas, pues se asocia a aburrimiento y repetición, pero mi rutina no tiene nada que ver con todo eso. Vivo la vida que he elegido y en ella no hay mucho tiempo para el hastío, ya que siempre hay novedades y cosas que hacer. Las rutinas en FemDom son necesarias para enseñar al sumiso cómo debe comportarse, para que aprenda cómo me gusta ser atendida, para que su entrega vaya en aumento paulatinamente, para que sepa cuáles son sus obligaciones y no se le olvide cuál es su sitio y a quién pertenece. Hay diferentes modos de afrontar la vida y sus rutinas y las mías no son en absoluto...

My blog

I observe a significant increase in the number of daily visits to the blog and it’s nice to see that my small contribution is recognized everyday (and also criticized, which I must say). I guess it has a lot to do to update it every day, but I also know that you like the content. Five months of life to a blog (three in the English language) are only a start, but I assure you that mine has a blistering pace for such a short space of time. There are days when I have a thousand things to tell you and I must choose one topic and others, either because I have not woken up at all or in a timely mood, that I’m excited to share my life and do not even know what to write but just following along with a story or even with a dedication from the aforementioned lines captures quickly. In any case, FemDom is a community that is growing every day and  those of us who really live just coming together and going into the same sites but not always have affinity with everyone. My blog is a reflection of myself, describe situations and convictions, publish my pictures and tell you my experiences. You read me, seek me, follow me, ask me … I leave my thanks, again, for being...