Desired FemDom practices

We all have preferences as to FemDom practices. And I say all: Dommes, Dominas, submissives and slaves. But do not confuse things.

A submissive, logically, have preferences, no one doubts that, but … Are you looking to please the Mistress or just to please yourself? Serve not the same as satisfy your morbidity, though not excluded.

The speech I am ready to please you in facesitting, spanking, worship, sodomy, etc, etc, etc” will not wash. Are you trying to please the Mistress or the practices you like regardless which she prefers? Maybe she just wants to use you for reification, to serve dinner or domestic service in general, where does that leave your submission?

Submissive of your morbidity? Slave of your own desire? Great, but before displaying all that list, ask her what she wants, what you can do for her.

A Dominant Woman is a woman that during a session will not do what you feel like if she doen’t want to do it, is a woman who will do what she wants to do at each moment and if you like it or not fills you up, she will ask you to close the door (from outside).

That is why I always emphasize that you must look for the right Domme, talk a lot and, unless you meet a fetishist woman with your same interests, meditate and have clear what you are willing, it will be the best way not to waste the time (and that you don’t waste yours).

2 Comments

  1. Sometimes as submissives we do get carried away with what it is we want, that is true.
    i think i get you, look for Domme with the interests you share as it’s really about Her needs that you’ll supply as and when She wants them. Thank You for the reminder.

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    • Thank you for your participation, Belinda.

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