Being submissive is not to be willing to please the Mistress in all those things you feel like she make you, but to be useful in all that the Mistress desired, required or needed. This includes services and sexual whims (or will be denied), but is not limited to this topic.
The Mistress plays with your voracity (I’m very much in favor of tease and denial) and adapts to hers, satisfying her instincts through manipulation of yours.
Whether your libido is satisfied or not, I do not want only a sexual submission of mine. I respect those who so choose it, but if you’re mine, you’re mine in a session, having coffee on a terrace or in line at the supermarket.
Another thing is that I infatuated with someone and use him for a while without major implications. But my sense of ownership and possession are not limited to the sexual level. And I say that not limited because neither excluded.
There are very illuminating phrases such as “I am ready to please you in facesitting, spanking, etc..” Are you willing to please me in what you feel like? Are you willing to be pleased at what attracts you?
How little I like practical listings and how much I like improvisation enjoy checking how far you are able to arrive 😉