Yesterday I was speaking with a gorgeous British Mistress with which I sympathize. However our opinions do not always agree and sometimes we engaged in discussions and laughter for hours.
She defended that we should not show affection by a slave and I argued that we must show what we want, without limiting ourselves in what we feel, otherwise we would live in a pose, not as we really are.
I understand her position, in fact I have had and I have slaves with whom there is no emotional relationship, but also I have slaves with which does exist, and with them the relationship is usually long lasting and with sublime nuances I do not wish to give up.
Will I deny myself the pleasure of feeling in any way to stick to paralyzing parameters because it is what is expected of me? Is not me who dominates, who decides and who shows and live the way I please?
I think the kind of relationships that each set is very personal, but set limits to give a face to the public image seems very inconsistent because we miss wonderful experiences and endless possibilities in our personal development.
I support impersonal D/s relationships, but also affective D/s relationships. However, in these latter I decide how I show my affection, that vanilla hugs and cuddles are not with me 😉