Meetings

The afternoon/evening of Saturday was very special. I had the privilege of meeting in person so two wonderful colleagues with whom I share many things. It’s very nice to meet real people, with values ​​that fully agree. After attending Mistress Sejmet’s party (as always, a charming Lady and very nice meeting with many well-known of Madrid BDSM community to which I will not name out of respect for their privacy), we were talking about a thousand things for overnight.Tutor is a Master of the few remaining and the picture and I was offered was a particularly emotional tenderness. Among a cigarette and another, the private exhibition of dressage was lengthened, combined with our desire to tell us many things, until morning.We have so much in common, I’m looking forward they return to give another twist to my relationship with them. I prepared a couple of surprises that I know everyone will enjoy.You have some wonderful photos of a female slave, wanting to further progress in her relationship with her Master and prepared to be the best for him (and now that she doen’t hear me, I will say that there are few like her, who feel the passion of the submission with the force that gives the real surrender).My small tribute to Tutor and his alma, Master and slave, of the few facts that demonstrate that BDSM is much more than...

Encuentros

La tarde/noche del sábado fue muy especial. Tuve el privilegio de conocer al fin en persona a dos magníficos compañeros con los que comparto muchísimas cosas. Es muy agradable encontrar a gente de verdad, con unos valores con los que coincido totalmente. Tras asistir a la fiesta de Ama Sejmet (como siempre, un encanto de Dama y la reunión muy agradable, con muchos conocidos de la comunidad BDSM de Madrid a los que no nombraré por respeto a su privacidad), nos quedamos hablando de mil cosas durante toda la noche. Tutor es un Amo de los que ya quedan pocos y la estampa que me ofrecieron era de una ternura especialmente emotiva. Entre un cigarrillo y otro, la exhibición privada de doma se alargó, combinada con nuestras ganas de contarnos infinidad de cosas, hasta la mañana. Tenemos tanto en común, que estoy deseando que vuelvan para dar otro giro a mi relación con ellos. Les preparo un par de sorpresas que sé que disfrutaremos todos. Os dejo unas fotos de una esclava admirable, con ganas de seguir avanzando en su relación con su Dueño y dispuesta a ser la mejor para él (y ahora que no nos oye, os diré que hay pocas como ella, que sientan la pasión de la sumisión con esa fuerza que da la entrega real). Mi pequeño homenaje a Tutor y su alma, Amo y esclava, de los pocos que demuestran con hechos que el BDSM es mucho más que...

A life in eleven months

The blog is eleven months old and so much has happened… I’ve been showing every day as I am, I have written my opinions, my experiences, my life, I shared my pictures, I have done a few fun contests… And also I have omitted many things, of course, as there are issues that remain in my privacy. I have been envied, slandered, exalted, pyroped. Some have copied my texts, my sentences and even my photos have been adjudicated as their own. I’ve even been threatened with death! I have been leaving bits of me and since I started this adventure Blogging I’ve met wonderful people, both real and online. Dommes, submissive, slave, Amos, switches, sadists, masochists, spankers, spankees, bondage artists, sissies, transgendered, Dominas… My conclusion is highly enjoyable and positive. Not that before publishing the blog did not know anyone, I’ve been many years in FemDom, but letting me know here has meant opening the door to many great people and, in turn, be welcomed by people I admire.And this is CruelDama, the woman you read here, sadistic and Dominant, but with the wisdom and sense of reality that comes with age. Because yes, it is true, I am a mature Lady, but my genes are favorable to me :DIn this time I have not tried to lecture anyone, but to share my point of view and my opinions. You say you learn a lot from me, but I encourage you to seek other perspectives, that are and are very respectable. Until this moment is a intense “diary” of eleven months. Will we get to a year? Time, my will and your...

Una vida en once meses

El blog ha cumplido once meses de vida y han pasado tantas cosas… Me he ido mostrando cada día tal cual soy, he redactado mis opiniones, mis experiencias, mi vida, he compartido mis imágenes, he hecho un par de concursos divertidos… Y también he omitido muchas cosas, por supuesto, pues hay temas que se quedan en mi privacidad. He sido envidiada, calumniada, ensalzada, piropeada. Algunos han copiado mis textos, mis frases e incluso se han adjudicado mis fotos. ¡Hasta he sido amenazada de muerte! Os he ido dejando pedacitos de mi y desde que empecé en esta aventura de blogger he conocido a gente maravillosa, tanto en real como online. Amas, sumisos, esclavos, Amos, sumisas, switches, sádicos, masoquistas, spankers, spankees, artistas del bondage, sissies, transexuales, Dóminas… Mi conclusión es grata y altamente positiva. No es que antes de publicar el blog no conociera a nadie, que llevo muchos años en FemDom, pero el darme a conocer aquí ha supuesto abrir la puerta a muchas personas fantásticas y, a la vez, ser acogida por gente a la que admiro. Y así es CruelDama, la mujer que aquí leéis, sádica y Dominante, pero con la sensatez y el sentido de la realidad que dan los años. Porque sí, es cierto, soy una Dama madura, aunque mis genes me son favorables 😀 En este tiempo no he pretendido dar lecciones a nadie, sino compartir mis puntos de vista y mis opiniones. Me decís que aprendéis mucho de mi, pero también os animo a buscar otras perspectivas, que las hay y son muy respetables. Hasta este momento es un “diario” de once intensos meses. ¿Llegaremos...

Start with the details

It’s amazing how we fall into the conventions in which we have been educated without even realizing it. Sometimes we act as expected of us by inertia. Society is evolving, but in the collective subconscious persist those traditional “details”. There is still a palpable sexism in virtually all fields, from advertising to social behavior. However, although I don’t stick by these conventions, there are times I adopt social norms, without rigidities, as a matter of respect for others, but I think it would be good to change them.Could it be that, as FemDom, I perceive such clerarly derogatory dyes towards my sex in the day. Expressions like “sure who drives that car is a woman” when that car hinders traffic flow, or “she is a slut, sleeps with everyone“, when if who do this is a man he is a “macho” and is applauded the same behavior.The society is male-centered, taking man as the measure and prototype focuses on the needs of male and everything revolves around him. It is the social construction has prevailed over the centuries, but things are slowly changing. I will not make a tragedy of these details, but it’s good to recognize them and personally try to re-educate mine on respect towards...