Swingers and BDSM

Without wishing to belittle anyone, ’cause any form of enjoyment is completely valid, there are major differences between the collective of swingers and the one of BDSM.

Many swingers also perform some BDSM practices (and vice versa). There is nothing strange in this, no one has exclusivity of anything and everyone decides what to do with his life. However swinger and specifically FemDom, have little in common.

From my point of view, and I speak from my personal experience, there is some underhanded rejection (and sometimes not so underhanded) by swingers towards Femdom. Of course, there is everything, I‘m generalizing, don’t get nervous, but the vast majority of swingers (men) are decanted to offer their partners (women) in exchange for partner (female) of the neighboring of table, bed, mat or jacuzzi, while they (women) accept and everything ends in sex.

And it’s great that we all enjoy our sexuality as we please, am not criticizing, just exposing my opinion.

The swinger enjoys sex with additives, while in FemDom and BDSM, plus a certain practice, there is a whole philosophy. For me, FemDom is my lifestyle, not a punctual sexual game.

A few days ago I put a comment on a social network requesting not add me to swinger groups because, although I have absolutely nothing against them and there are lovely people in this collective with whom I get along wonderfully, I’m no a swinger, I am a FemDom.

I live polyandry, not follow conventionalism and enjoy sex but, of course, with who I want, how, where and when I want, but I’ve never been a swinger. And I‘m not saying I’m better or worse, no, it comes to we do and live different things.

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  1. You are so right Cruel Dama. Swingers are essentially wife or partner swappers who indulge in having sex with many different partners, a sort of game. Femdom on the other hand is indeed a lifestyle and one in which the Dominant Female takes as many submissive male partners as She desires or requires to fulfil Her lifestyle. These partners are dedicated to Her and only Her and definitely not players in a sexual game.

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