Trick the devil

I expect from my slaves involvement, effort, perseverance and dedication. If I see excuses instead of interest, if it’s necessary inventing a story to justify themselves, is that things fail a lot.But there are still those who believe that the trick of feign sincerity works.There is a marketing technique called “synthetic authenticity“. It’s to show others that the object (or concept) to sell is “the real”, resulting in the consumer some sort of emotional attachment and feelings of confidence. They try we don’t assess what we really need, but how we feel about what we “must” buy.It’s difficult for me not to realize when someone try to manipulate me. It’s desirable that those who pretend to serve me understand that I will not buy anything.In short: if you want things to be made to your measure and not mine, it can only mean that there is not much future in your relationship with...

Engañar al diablo

Espero de los míos implicación, esfuerzo, constancia y dedicación. Si en lugar de interés veo excusas, si es necesario inventarse toda una historia para justificarse, es que fallan muchas cosas. Pero todavía hay quien cree que el truco de fingir sinceridad funciona. Hay una técnica de marketing que se llama “autenticidad sintética”. Consiste en hacer ver a los demás que el objeto (o el concepto) a vender es “lo real”, generando en el consumidor algún tipo de vínculo emocional y sentimientos de confianza. Se intenta que no evaluemos lo que de verdad necesitamos, sino cómo nos sentimos con lo que “debemos” comprar. Es difícil que no me dé cuenta de cuándo intentan manipularme. Lo deseable es que los que pretenden servirme comprendan que no voy a comprar nada. Resumiendo: si buscas que las cosas sean a tu medida y no a la mía, sólo puede significar que no habrá mucho futuro en tu relación...

Any plans for Saturday?

As mentioned in BDSM Events section, next weekend will be long in Spain and it’s great to relax, make a short trip or do all those things we leave for another time.But Oasis Of Sado remains in the city and organize another private BDSM meeting on Saturday 3 in the Dungeon of the Kings.If you stay in Madrid, are nearby or come to visit, we would love to meet you (or reacquaint your if you’ve been on other occasions) and spend a few hours in that so our way in good company.There will be no a certain theme, it will be a gathering of friends, but it’s always nice to talk and drink with the members of the BDSM community, with the possibility that arise games and feeling among the attendees.I will be there, are you coming?...

¿Plan para el sábado?

Como ya menciono en la pestaña Eventos BDSM el próximo fin de semana será largo en nuestro país y es estupendo para descansar, hacer un viaje corto o hacer todas esas cosas que dejamos para otro momento. Pero El Oasis Del Sado se queda en la ciudad y organizamos otra reunión BDSM privada el sábado 3 en la Mazmorra de los Reyes. Si te quedas en Madrid, estás cerca o vienes de visita, nos encantará conocerte (o reencontrarte si ya has venido en otras ocasiones) y pasar unas horas de ese modo tan nuestro en buena compañía. No habrá una temática determinada, será una reunión de amigos, pero siempre es agradable conversar y tomar algo con los integrantes de la comunidad BDSM, con la posibilidad de que surjan juegos y feeling entre los asistentes. Yo estaré, ¿vienes?...

Disagreements

There’s no need be convergence of opinions on everything and I don’t agree with the concept that some have of FemDom. FemDom is not a pose, at least it’s not for me. It’s not upload photos from others on social networks and comment all that suggest, does not mean that we all attract the same things as if it were not possible to reject some, it has nothing to do with that a Lady lends herself to do all what submissives want her to do them. I could go on enumerating things, but I think I will simplify better referring back to Live FemDom, Female Domination or to many other posts that form this blog. Here you read my vision, my experience and my way of living. Sure there are many others, but this one is mine. I don’t pretend to criticize, but to clarify (again) that this is CruelDama’s blog, where I write about my daily life, my way of thinking and doing things.I enjoy a good debate, but I refuse to participate in confrontations with those seeking their moment of glory pontificating and getting to insult when they run out of arguments. Respect is important, but not only in FemDom, right?...