Diversity on networks

We can find all kinds of people on social networks, but I assure you that is exactly the same people we see on the street, even hide behind a nickname (or several). And of course, as they say, to each his own topic. I myself spread around my daily post. Some days I laugh a lot with comments, others I hardly stay for a little while because I get incredibly bored with how repetitive are some with “wish it was me who was there” and things like that at the foot of each pic.It’s highly commendable having fantasies and that’s all that most will have, so I greet my friends, share a joke with my closest and change the link in my browser.I see my post is getting a little arrogant, but hey, you know that even though I try to be diplomatic, I keep saying what I think 😉I can’t say I love you all, but I have fun with you all. I block a few people, but there are also such cases.Not everything is a crap, as I read some out there, if it were, what are they doing that they have not canceled their profiles in this “junk”? For me it’s not rubbish, although I don’t spend my entire day stuck there. There have been great moments and many others are...

Diversidad en las redes

En las redes sociales nos podemos encontrar todo tipo de gente, aunque os aseguro que es exactamente la misma gente que vemos en la calle, por más que se escondan tras un apodo (o varios). Y claro, como se suele decir, cada loco con su tema. Yo misma difundo ahí mi post diario. Algunos días me rio muchísimo con los comentarios, otros apenas paro porque me aburro increíblemente con lo repetitivos que son algunos con sus “ojalá fuera yo el que estuviera ahí” y cosas similares al pie de cada foto. Es muy loable tener fantasías y eso es todo lo que la mayoría tendrán, así que saludo a mis amistades, comparto alguna broma con mis más íntimos y cambio el enlace de mi navegador. Veo que me está quedando un post un poco arrogante, pero bueno, ya sabéis que aunque procuro ser diplomática, no dejo de decir lo que pienso 😉 No puedo decir que os quiero a todos, pero sí que me divierto con todos. Y al que molesta, bloqueo al canto, que para eso se ha inventado. No todo es basura, como leo por ahí a algunos y algunas, si lo fuera, ¿qué hacen que no han cancelado sus perfiles en esa “basura”? Para mi no es basura, aunque no me paso el día entero ahí metida. Ha habido momentos estupendos y muchos otros están por...

Fears

Insecurity stems from distrust of the own capacities. Nothing ventured, not lose, but neither will ever win. If we decided to stay at home for fear of what might happen outside, we are denying ourselves the limitless possibilities of achieving our goals and enjoy every challenge that comes along.I’ve known many submissives who died of fear thinking about meeting me in person, not in a session, but even having a coffee in a public place or attending an event. Many of them never took the step, but others, those who got the courage to go to an appointment, not only did not repent, but were satisfied of two things: to know me and overcome their fears.In any action mishaps may arise, to get overcome is a matter of attitude. You can change insecurity in enthusiasm, it’s easier than it sounds because, once fears are overtaken, after the barrier you can find exciting things and people.What are you, of those who hide or those who...

Miedos

La inseguridad nace de la desconfianza de las propias capacidades. Quien no arriesga, no perderá, pero tampoco ganará jamás. Si decidimos quedarnos en casa por miedo a lo que pueda pasar fuera, nos estaremos negando a nosotros mismos las ilimitadas posibilidades de alcanzar nuestras metas y disfrutar de cada reto que se presente. He conocido a muchos sumisos que se morían de miedo a la hora de conocerme en persona, no ya en una sesión, sino incluso tomando un café en un lugar público o acudiendo a un evento. Muchos de ellos jamás dieron el paso, pero otros, los que consiguieron reunir el valor para acudir a una cita, no sólo no se arrepintieron, sino que se sintieron satisfechos de dos cosas: de conocerme y de vencer sus miedos. En cualquier acción se pueden plantear contratiempos, conseguir superarlos es cuestión de actitud. Se puede cambiar inseguridad por entusiasmo, es más fácil de lo que parece pues, una vez superados los temores, tras esa barrera podemos encontrar cosas y personas apasionantes. ¿De cuáles eres tú, de los que se esconden o de los que...

Setting dates

Yesterday I announced the BDSM party scheduled for September 6th in Madrid. I hope you all have the same desire to have fun that we have. But today, after a series of questions you made me, I’ll clarify something.No, The Oasis Of Sado will not have parties every weekend as we have done so far. We’ll make one or two events a month in the dungeon and maybe another somewhere else, so stay tuned for the dates we will announce and make your reservations, ’cause you could get to the dungeon and find it closed.For us every event is different and really fun, but also exhausting, it not only means reaching out and take whips, but there is a whole organization behind.And we love it! But we should not overwhelm the supply of events and there is growing throughout the city. Moreover, in this way we will meet with you not only in our parties, but also in others.The time to wear again wonderful skirts, fabulous corsets, amazing heels, beautiful gloves, latex, leather, vinyl… or just black clothes approaches. The important thing is to enjoy our meetings the way that everyone want.The purpose is to have fun and I’ll be advertising the next parties of The Oasis Of Sado right here as we finalized details...