The age of the internet

Social networks, groups, communities, mails, messages, forums, tweets, photos, videos, blogs, chat rooms, websites… countless ways to contact among internet users. Myself included, obviously. Even on vacation I’m connected at times.The breakneck speed of the virtual world is such that what was yesterday the latest generation, is now obsolete or have been overtaken by new versions or stunning updates that never cease to amaze us.Nowadays there are languages​​, programs, operating systems, addons, pluggins and many other things that those we have lived in times of Basic, Cobol and MS-DOS programming, could not even imagine back then. New generations can not imagine how rudimentary was all, with diskettes, daisy wheel printers making an awful noise, webcams with which you were lucky to get to make out what was on the other side, monitors that occupied the whole table…CruelDama has lived long, buut I’m sure that the best is yet to come. And I’ll not lose it, but I warn you that there are also a lot of fun out of internet...

The mocking rogue

The rogue of some “submissives” is enough to write a book. Seriously, there are things that should be contained in a sort of Guinness Book of fakes. I don’t know if because of the effects of the crisis, at the proliferation of “Financial Dommes“, these rascals make their profits in the ranks of the new female recruits. They resort to something as simple as awakening InstaDomme greed and take them from Skype to networks without spending a miserable penny with gargantuan promises.The other day one of these rogues (he was pretty funny, it must be said), asked in a group of a social network if anyone has PayPal or Amazon (showing his irrepressible desire to make a transfer as soon as possible). Well, in just five minutes there were about fifteen responses like, “Hey, you dog, my PayPal is xxxx”. I could not help but smile, because I’m sure the rascal finished with a lot of Skype, Yahoo, WhatsApps and Kiks IDs, getting all the “humiliation” he sought from a bunch of deluded girls that sure gave him a good number of erections and some other completely free ejaculation.He is not as stupid as he shows and, when he runs out of spree, closes that account and opens a new one to start over the round.It’s funny watching these things, but my concept of what to be a Financial Domme and a financial slave means is very different.I advocate a book of anecdotes, it can be very entertaining,...

In my own way

I’m considering totally change the design and content of my new website. On one hand there are many new photos I want to include (although they are not wonderful pictures of study) and probably remove some of those appearing on the page that is working at this time.On the other hand I think I will modify some texts and change other completely. Rereading the page that is active, it might seem I spend my life online and is not so, ’cause I distribute my time at my convenience. Day after day I delete countless emails that have no interest for me and, of course, I am not obliged to accept the services of anyone, the loaded with money you are. Reject applicants with juicy proposals very often (and many other absurd), because it is I who decide who I accept and what I accept.I can be understanding and have much patience with those who start, but my patience has limits, and when they exceed that limit, it’s over. I don’t tolerate lies, play games or manipulations to make things to your liking (will be to mine or it will not be).I don’t feel obliged to anyone, so I play who I want to, not because I have to or because I received a tax. And I love to perform many different practices, but in my Domination I decide what I want, when I want it and how I want it.There will be not yet become clear, I fear...

Let’s go to the dungeon!

It has been a very dynamic and with many news week. But it‘s the weekend and tonight‘s party in the dungeon, where we can meet to talk about our stuff, play what we feel like and meet those who come for the first time to visit the Oasis Of Sado.I really want to rerun my codline, it suffered a small accident recently, but is now like new and ready for any action it takes. Yesterday came from the workshop of SR-Leather and I want to express my appreciation to the owners, who were kind enough to fix it and leave it even better than before. And, if it was one of my favorite toys before, I can imagine more than a few trembling when they see it in my hands again 😀 You guessed it, I love the spanking, painting marks and colors on the canvas of a skin, the sound of the crack of a whip, a crop, a codline, a paddle, a shovel, a flogger, a cane, my hand... to feel, to hear, to taste…But in the dungeon can do the practices that attendees wish, facilities are perfect for making suspensions, watersports, spanking on the cross, cleat, bed immobilization, foot and footwear fetishists will be in their element with FemDoms there we will. I could go on, the list of practices that lends the dungeon are endless, but obviously, if you wish to do others, there you will find the perfect environment for you to carry them out. Public humiliation, Facesitting, CBT, pet-play, mummification, feminization… or just watch the playing? Anything can happen with The Oasis Of Sado...

FemDom performance

Yesterday I went to see a theater play you all know, but no, it’s not the new film by Polanski, that I saw a few months ago and I recommend it if you have not seen, I love how he captures the essence of the psychological Domination Vanda submits severin from the first moment with an unexpected start.But today I talk about the theater play with the same title, Venus in Furs, performed by Clara Lago and Diego Martin, under the direction of David Serrano, whom you can see in the picture with me.This work is the American playwright David Ives, in which Polanski based his film, ie, not a representation of Sacher-Masoch book, but a version/adaptation of the play by David Ives in Spanish.The performance was good, there were sublime moments in interpreting of the actors (both), but the most original was that, once finished, the actors met with the public and had a chat with us, where we could make some other question to the actors and the director.I don’t agree with what was exposed about the movie, but it is clear that we (I extend this ‘we’ both, to me and for you that visit my blog) we live and feel, what Diego, Clara and David do is interpretation.And maybe that’s the quiz of all and why I applaud this performance, that actors unrelated to BDSM and FemDom get catch the attention of the public and stage a seemingly natural way of things that are everyday for us is, for me, the best flattery. Although, in the subsequent talk, I have to say they don’t capture all what Domination and submission mean, very understandable...

To be or not to be

We can be visceral and, at the same time, have enough self-control to know what we do at every moment and how we channel our emotions.Being Dominant does not mean losing your composure, do not have to do with being a screamer, not a rude or embittered woman.Sometimes all it takes is a look to get the result we want, we can exercise power with a whisper in which are embedded a few words that trigger the urge to please us, we manage to capture the attention with a gesture, teach our submissives and slaves (each with our methods) they endeavor to provide a satisfactory service.It is also true that there are some cases where I really enjoy a more exclusive and intense humiliation. But they are punctual cases and whenever I decide that that’s exactly what I want to do with this or that submissive and, of course, that the submissive accept my whim to give him such treatment (or he is one of my slaves, because in that case I don’t have to be groping).But we can humiliate a submissive and lead him to a brutal excitement still smiling and without raising our voice. And I’m not talking about to call him little slut to get a sad erection, but to rummage his entrails and take him by an imaginary leash wherever we want.The best is not to be as we are expected to be, but as we really are...