Love or desire

Even decorated with words like love, for example, sexual desire is a primal instinct. I’m not saying they can not go together, but are often confused with each other.Libido (desires and pulsions) is influenced by factors as diverse as (and I quote just a few) physical and hormonal state, the climate, the way we perceive the object of desire, dreams, conscious and unconscious fantasies…Infatuation is fleeting, its duration depends on the value you assign to your loved one.There are also partial sexual instincts: oral, anal, exhibitionism, voyeurism, sadism…Where do I want to go? Those “I love you” some people say so blithely neither cause the same effect on everyone nor have the same meaning for everyone. I have heard them so many times that my attention is probably more focused on the sound of falling rain if both sounds coincide simultaneously, ie, do not cause me a significant reaction. And certainly not when who says it is someone who has not my confidence.Many men throw an “I love you” because, perhaps because of their socio-cultural background or because they have seen it in a silly movie, they believe it is what any woman wants to hear, forgetting that not all women are the same.I maintain affective relationships with several of my slaves but, you know, the dog loves you, the Cat allows you to love Her...

Once upon a time…

One day, someone looking for chat rooms to give a little spice to his boring daily life, find others talking about something called BDSM.At first he was a little scared at the mention of sadomasochism (there are so extrange people on the internet…), but something manages to catch his attention, he is attracted to “test” a little those forbidden honeys completely anonymously, with a simple nick not even registered, or a thousand other different nicks with which he can snoop without his identity is compromised.Observes users, but he is fascinated by a series of rules and behaviors that, those who seem most knowledgeable, respect and even strictly require others.His thoughts fly and genitals respond amazingly to the possibility of the forbidden, but does not dare more than the odd private exchange with other curious wankers and will not be repeated after the timely ejaculation, although sometimes some are clumsy enough and has to resort to solitary masturbation after a failed private.But a whole new world has opened his eyes and decides to investigate. What is my role? Do I have a role? When informed that the initial capital letter is indicative of the Dominant role, tries to login with all his nick in lowercase to see what happens.He likes others to have the initiative, but realizes that using the initial capital letter, they receive him with more education. And so he goes testing until he invents his character with a number of details because, since it is now an expert, he played with class and will get overwhelmed all those nerds new arrive not knowing what a Dominant is, what have believed?And thus a virtual MegaMaster is born, who will defend to the hilt...

Happy BDSM Intenational Day!

Today is the day of BDSM international celebration and there are parties and events throughout the globe.It is the day we celebrate our alternative sexuality and our alternative way to live and enjoy our lives.I wish you all a wonderful day and I hope to see many of you at the party organized by The Oasis Of Sado on Taboo room in Madrid, 19 Moreno Nieto Street.We will be receiving friends and new incorporations from 21:00 h. and enjoying the event, since it is the last of the summer season for us, as we take holiday until September.See you...

Lastest BDSM events

It’s Saturday again and tonight‘s party in the dungeon, with the performance Gloryhole. Marqu茅s de Zas and NeFeR will delight us with a new and unique representation designed to The Oasis Of Sado. We start at 23:00, do not be late or we’ll begin without you 馃榾 After this event, there will be only other one next week, 24/7, BDSM International Day on Thursday in Taboo.I will need complacent submissives (that always, avoid missing), I’ve got tasks for them because, in addition to performance there is so much to do … 馃槈We’ll count with the assistance of Nasero, BDSM toys craftsman and friend of the group, who will bring some of his creations, like the new codline I commissioned for friends (I’ll must premiere it, lol) and other things he does on request.In these months of events we have gathered a diverse group of related to BDSM and we are pleased to see that someone new always comes to know us and enjoy the evenings. And I still say more, who test, repeats.See you tonight?...

Pride

Spent more than a year and a half writing here every day. I share snippets of my life in pictures and words. I don’t tell you everything, of course, there are things that belong to my privacy and will stay there. But do not hide because there is nothing to hide and nothing to be ashamed of, quite the contrary, I am proud of who I am. Some accept me, even some admire me, others reject me and even envy me for having the gall to live as I please. It never rains to everyone’s taste, but that’s not my problem. When it rains, I allow any of my pooches hold my umbrella or, if none is near, I hold myself for though not used to do many of these everyday and routine things, also can do if necessary.Although I am whimsical with my slaves and my mind never rests, there are days when a fun movie or a good book are enough to feel wonderfully, although it is true that there are other days when I need a lot of action 馃槈I posted here an article some time ago about my sexual orientation, so you already know it, but today is the International Gay Pride Day and I encourage tolerance towards gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer, pansexual, transsexual, transgender and others. I leave the programming of these parties in Madrid; there are performances and attractions throughout the city these days: Madrid Gay Pride 2014I’ll start with Spanking Party tonight with The Oasis Of Sado...

And great day arrived

Tonight we have private BDSM party in the dungeon, but not only that, but also Marqu茅s de Zas and Nefer will delight us with an original performance that is at the height of the most demanding minds imagination.I’m not going to reveal the contents, you have to come to enjoy a surprising staging. Although I don’t think staging or performance define exactly what will cook tonight because they not only act, but feel and enjoy what they do.As usual, we offer free drinks while supplies last (that will not be few), all the fun attendees want, very our conversations, games … all for a well adjusted contribution so that everyone can afford.We will also have the birthday celebration of one of the members of the group The Oasis Of Sado, so there will be cake and much more.The party starts at eleven o’clock at night and we ask punctuality in the interest of proper functioning of the evening and everything is running as planned. Note that no drinks will be served during the performance, which starts at 12, so come early to order yours or you’ll wait until it finishes, because no one will want to miss.I have no doubt it will be a perfect night, will you wait somebody tell you about it or have already booked your place?...