Thursday without Taboos

It’s Thursday and as announced a few days ago, this afternoon we have an event at Taboo pub, where everyone can play, talk, laugh and have a drink. We start at 7pm. Wear as fetish as you want or just black clothes, it’s always a good choice, although it will not be a strict code meeting.It will be our second event in the pub Taboo, as we have received many requests to do it again during the week and afternoon schedule, so wish granted… See you there!Newbie with fears, experienced wanting to play, inveterate shy or a completely extroverted?You are all welcome to another party/meeting with The Oasis Of...

My writing

Here I talk about me, my life, my preferences, my friends, what I like and what I don’t like, what I find exciting and what I hate, what I think and feel, my slaves, my applicants, my romps, my parties, my projects …Those who know me well say that my blog is very me, a true reflection of me, without more Photoshop retouching than watermarks I make on my photos. Those who do not know me well imagine me and some dream about that Cruel Lady they follow.Among those who do not know me, not even bother to read me, are often important prejudices against two key words: Financial Domme. And they have the right to refuse Financial Domination, of course, I do not force anyone to anything, not persecute anyone or, as some narrow minded seem to think, I don’t go through life asking. I’m not a beggar, I am a Lady with a series of fetishes that I enjoy tremendously.I assumed and became reconciled years ago with my sadistic and Dominant nature and learned to channel my Domination toward satisfying my instincts, enjoying my fetishes which, incidentally, are not limited to money, but cover a broad spectrum of exciting things.Over time I put a sieve against both idle seeking me, not to waste my time doing things I did not want to do, ie entertain those seeking their own pleasure and see me as a mere tool to achieve it. I should clarify that masturbation is very healthy. If Domme agrees everything is fine, but if you do it with lies and not even communicate her, you are a scoundrel (and then Dommes get on us arrogant fame). Anyway, I’ll keep...

Social life

Yesterday I attended the Spanking event of Nasero (I am an enthusiastic Spanker). This was close to home and with nice people in a location not yet known (Taboo), so I did not think twice. And I had a great time.So much so that in the course of the party, NeFeR and I agreed with the owner of the place to do right there the celebration of International BDSM Day, that is, on Thursday, July 24.And tomorrow event in the dungeon, this time we join the international Gay Pride celebration and dedicate this issue to our party, although the Oasis Of Sado never make distinctions regarding the sexual identity of anyone and, as always, I emphasize on the dungeon premises you can do all kinds of practices or just take a drink chatting with attendees.I love you dare to come (we don’t bite, at least not too hard at first, lol) and meet you in person; it’s great to put a face to the people we interact online.I’m thinking it’s a long time ago I don’t organize a contest here and the two you see on the Contests section were fun. I have not plenty of time, but there is always room for the things of the blog, so I will have to organize another one...

My stuff

You ask a lot how it is possible that each day I can think of a topic to talk about here, you say you’re surprised by the volume of the blog and all the content it has.The truth is that I don’t consider on how, maybe because neither I know myself, I follow a sort of daily self-discipline to keep this up updated and try to do new photos, I know you like them.Themes? Well, in FemDom and BDSM themes, practices and viewpoints are endless, but the truth is that some days it’s hard for me to find a starting point so that it does not become repetitive.Sometimes I start with a fleeting thought that goes through my mind and in the course of writing, I go changing the subject. But I always say what I think, that is immovable.This blog was born without thinking too much about how it would be, maybe at first it was kind of a test to see what the host would have a space to express myself and parking taboos, taking every single post and every topic with the naturalness they deserve.And this is the result that, even with some detractors, I know also has many loyal followers daily...

The Cruel arrogant

Last night someone told me that, reading my blog, it shows that I am very understanding and approachable. And yes, I am, I will not deny, but depends on to who, ’cause I am also arrogant, humiliating and direct. As in my first website, for example, because it is focused on other recipients.I don’t give the same treatment to all my slaves, just as I don’t spend the same treatment to all the people I know: some are my worms I want to see grovel before me and wake my sadism, with others I maintain a more affective and close relationship… and I never cease to be myself.You need to balance this duality that we all have and know when to apply one thing or another to whom.Do not be deceived, not all submissive and slaves want the same thing. The one who needs to be humiliated not seeks my understanding or my sympathy, but all my cruelty 馃槈It may be the case that there is no coincidence between what a submissive looks for and what he inspires me and, in that case, no agreement is possible, for I will not adapt myself to his wishes and, if he pretends to get being at my feet, he’ll can not do it for long.It’s not easy to build a relationship in which the components are complementary, but that is not easy does not make it impossible, and when it happens, the experience is...

Being

Sometimes my posts are of the most basic and I talk about things that are taken for granted, but I still see some other atrocity out there (and I’m not talking about solely on internet) that drives me to touch those topics that are not only basic but important as well. And no, not everyone have to agree with me on my views, my opinions and my way of doing things, but here you read me, you read CruelDama, not UltraDomme or MistressCuddles (probably you’ll find such Ladies on Facebook or any chat room). I am proud to know where I give steps and humble enough to recognize my limitations, no one is perfect, but if I don’t agree something, try to take up the subject in a respectful way, without naming names and giving my opini贸n. I’ve been accused of many things, but I like myself 馃榾 I’m honest, I consider myself a good person and my personal ethics always accompanies me. I know I awake many jealousies, but that I don’t lose sleep. I don’t seek acceptance from anyone, but I like to be recognized and respected by those I care. I offer this free space to which anyone can access daily with content for which I don’t absolutely charge any fee and involve my effort every day (that is not always easy to choose a topic, develop, translate and share on all social networks) and my time. I am no prophet at all. I am a Domme who enjoys her life and puts her bit in spreading these things I have inside and I am passionate about. To be a Financial Domme is not a stigma to hide. I am not...